When you’ve been married for a while, it can be hard to keep the spark alive and keep surprises in your marriage. But, it’s not just in a marriage, surprising your significant other or other loved ones is never easy.

So, to take away some of the work on your end, and in honor of Jeff Gould’s wife’s birthday, he decided that he’s going to share a few surprises that help keep the Goulds golden through all of the years.